Wednesday, May 29, 2013
Leprosy: Stories and Awareness
Leprosy Ward, Western Visayas Sanitarium.
I remember one patient asked me 3 years ago, 'Maam, wala ka nahadlok sa amon?' And I said, 'Wala ah. Ngaa man bi?' One newly diagnosed patient told me, 'Salamatkay nfeel nmun na welcome kmi di, wala kamu nandiri'. Made me teary-eyed. Im proud of my WVS family, may you continue making the leprosy patients happy. One thing I regret is leaving that soon without making that Leprosy Awareness seminar happen. I'm proud to say that Im one of the nurses they will never forget because I've touched their lives as they've touched mine. THEY MADE ME APPRECIATE LIFE MORE BECAUSE THEY LIVE IN SECLUSION WHILE I LIVE IN THE OPEN. They are feared and discriminated when they should'nt be. I hope people will realize that and be educated.
Imagine walking about 4-6hrs from the mountains to the main road, ride a jeepney for more than an hour just to go to the sanitarium for treatment/assessment.
Some were abandoned by their families--left alone in their homes. Just imagine how hard it is to live being feared, much more abandoned by loved ones in a place far away from the town proper.
Most patients would get their medications (thanks to the govt, they are all free) in WVS because they are ashamed of their illness or they don't want other people to know they have leprosy. Where in fact, almost every municipality has these medications so it would be convenient for them to have the treatment.
And then I remember there was this patient in IRC who comes every month together with his fellow inmates in the cell for assessment/tests to make sure they don't have the disease.
The youngest patient I have encountered is a 5yr old girl. I was glad her case was detected early. CASEFINDING and EARLY TREATMENT of leprosy brings about better outcome.
The group of boys/male patients I am with in the picture above? I taught them football, I played volleyball with them. They have hopes and aspirations just like us.
BUT it took me some time to answer one of their questions one time:
'Maam, makapangasawa pa ni kami ayhan? May magkagusto pa ayhan sa amon kay may aro' kmi?' (Maam, do you think we can also get married? Will someone love us eventhough we have leprosy?)
That tone of their voices, made me think. It made me sad. And so I said, 'May tsansa kmu mkapangasawa ah..ayo naman kamu. Kung palangga kamu sng babae, batunon nila kamu..bsta di kmu mdulaan paglaom. Skwela kmu kung may tsansa, di pa urihi ang tnan.' I told them not to let leprosy hinder them from reaching there dreams--they shouldn't lose hope.
Life isn't fair, yes. We are all born with a purpose. We touch each others lives in one way or another. Afterall,in this one world, we are all brothers and sisters.
I have more stories to tell but what I've shared enough. Haaaay nsubuan ko manumdum. So, I'll stop--it makes me teary-eyed everytime.
#Thankful for Western Visayas Sanitarium for making our leprosy patients welcome, cared for and at home in our institution. Thank you for being a FAMILY to these patients. I do really hope and pray that more people will be aware about leprosy---that the stigma that comes with it will be vanished through education/awareness. Thank you to our doctors, nurses, the government and also to the benefactors. Keep up the good work and God bless you all for your kind hearts..
Let's call on the public’s conscience to fight indifference towards people affected by leprosy and to accord these individuals all the dignity and respect due to them.
Tuesday, February 12, 2013
Headband Party (My Silver Birthday Celeb)
So I'm 25, let's cut the drama. But what the, I'm 25! I couldn't even fathom my feelings when the clock striked 12mn of February 3, 2013. Kalas. I'd just share here my 25th birthday (Headband Party) here in Riyadh. I had to celebrate not just because it's my silver year but also because it's the 2nd anniversary of my second life. I just had to have a party, a thanksgiving for this crazy amazing thing called life.
Everything were handmade by moi, except for the hot pink balloons. Thanks mucho to my flatmates for putting everything up! :) |
OC ever. I'm really fond of lists. |
Of marshmallows and hot pink ballons |
Presents from my close friends Tanzil and Ate Carmela |
From Jepay, Eve and Maisoon |
Cake baked by Frizza and decorateb by Jepay and Eve :) |
The cake that nearly didn't make it on time. lol |
this is so vintagey! |
Speakin of vintage, this hair accessory is really vintage. Had to have my hair this way though. |
HBD, Kaka! |
party tradition: solo pics with everyone :) |
Omaygad. Seriously? F. |
Boo, 25 with mixed feelings :) |
The best part of the night? Our jamming with Jepay and Eve that were recorded on my laptop. Haha. Epic night, we ate our hearts out with good food and sang like there's no tomorrow. Who would give a damn? In fact, I was teary eyed of happiness. I wished my family, Gab and my closest friends were also here to celebrate with me--I would have been happier.
Rock on, Evejoy! |
Glad they came over! :) |
murdered the cake! :)
I am kamsa-o-ashrin, bente singko, twenty five!
Thank you ladies for wearing your hair crowns and for making my silver year awesome. We all had fun jamming, thanks dai Evejoy Magonciaand Jennifer Pinuela :D Ever grateful to my flatmates and closest friends for making this party possible. God bless us all! Til next time :)
Love,Kaka
Love,Kaka
PS: here's the link for the complete photos of my party :
Kaka at 25 (indulge!) :P
Saturday, January 19, 2013
FURIOSITY
Furiosity (n): the property of being wild or turbulent "the storm's violence"
I so happened to discover a sheet of bondpaper with some rantings on it on how to manage my anger and stress. And I was like 'what the??' I'm a nice person with a very bad temper. Not just bad but VERY bad. I get so mad easily that it stresses me out. Haha. Anyway, it has been a long time since my last entry here and it took me some time to recover my blog account. *sigh* I had to congratulate myself for the patience and effort I took just to have this written here. Perhaps, I should start writing again.
Here goes what's written on a folded bond paper that I must have written many months ago and I'm pretty sure I was so furious that time that I could murder someone. Haha
'Oh KSA, what have you done to me?'
I realized I've become rude lately. I know it's wrong but I can't help it. Damn hormones and yes, some people should be taught some lesson. I normally treat people the way they treat me. As the quote says 'My personality is me, my attitude depends on you'--that's it. That's really it.
I hate rude and inconsiderate people. I hate it when somebody would call me name out loud (excuse me? get a grip!) and there's this tone of voice I really despise. The problem with people here is that they are always in a hurry. Oh. Always in a hurry as if they'll die.
ANGER MANAGEMENT:
- DEEP BREATHE.
- Count 1-10 before saying anything.
- Relax.
- Don't over think too much.
- CURSE--just in your head.
- Deep breathe---deep breathe and walk away from the stressor.
- Try to maintain your composure.
- Write and CRUMPLE the paper!
Jeez. Seriously? I'm a doorbanging-things-throwing-swearing-shouting-sarcastic-walkout queen and I don't give a damn, most of thhe time. I have this temper issue for so long and at this moment, I've gotten better. I believe everybody has a weakness and this is mine. This place is provoking me to be rude and I have this constant battle within me to stay nice, bubbly and patient. Deep breathe, again and again. Aren't nurses supposed to be patient? What an irony, Karen. *sigh*
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